A long distance relationship is a hidden dragon or treasure, depending upon
what you unlock...
An inspiration out of what i listened to a few days back from a LONG
DISTANCE PAIR!
Silence and words play unbelievably a great character in ensuring this
relationship lives or dies based on what you want to achieve.
A long distance relationship, need not be the hidden teenage affair, These
days in modern in IT India even the most publicly announced marriages are
qualified into the 'long Distance relationship' tag.
Words over emails and paper can be transformed into the most scenic and flavored
imagination of conversations as per the creativity and mood of the reader. As
good as someone who imagined "Harry potter and the half blooded
price" :). The ruthless shock or surprise of the ACTUAL being how close is
it to imagination.
The key in bridging this gap is a reality check. How elated are you VS how
blank something can be penned/said/typed.
Sometimes WORDS may not just be meant for the reader, and no point in making
meaning out of what is not MEANT for you. A pass by dialogue or a copied verse
should not be mistaken for manifestation of dreams at the receiver end. Most times
female recipients.
Silence may not be hatred and Shouting from top of a peak may not be
love...It is the % of what is being transferred through the changing frequency
and wavelength of medium!
Being separate is different from being detached. Despite the distance people
can be connected and despite the closeness pairs can be detached. What really
makes a relationship long distance is this difference between being separate or
being detached!
That way, i can say that most % of marriages these days are detached and
most pairs of past generation (despite the separation physically) were connected!
Words, not just words cause attachments! but they sure nurture...Open up
talk/write and chat even before you decide togetherness or not!
